Love to wait

I think what Friday boiled down to after I spoke with Bobbie it that she is ready for this pregnancy to be over. I believe she is done being pregnant, wants to move on with her life, and just "get this over with". Mike and I do too, we want to know the outcome more than anyone but more importantly we want a healthy baby girl. Bobbie is a remarkable women for what she is doing and has done but her life is nothing but easy. Days we don't understand her because we are not in her shoes and so often we have to remind ourselves of that. She knows she does not have the means to care for this baby but does love or fear take over and what was once a well thought out decision become a blur. Again time will tell. She can not make this baby come any sooner and it will never just "be over" for her. I hope she understands that before the birth, I really do. God is not done with our relationship together it's a work in progress so we wait with her. We love this time together.